Friday, July 10, 2026

Nature Art


Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 192: Today, I am grateful for nature art. 

Much of art is having the eyes to see. Art is deeply personal. In my mind, there is a difference between crafting and art but they overlap. It takes a creative mind to look at a pin cone to see an owl, a bird, or a frog. 

The images shown caught my eye. Perhaps it is because I have just read "Theo of Golden" where there are artists of many kinds. It is, also, VBS time and nature art is typically inexpensive and kid friendly. These examples are sweet and new to me. 

The thing about gathering components to create an animal out of sticks, stones, nuts, greens, grasses, and pinecones is that it requires to look at the ordinary with new eyes. I have never looked at a walnut and seen the shape of a frog's head, but some artist did. Art is often the ability to think outside of the box and beyond what others see. 

Our Heavenly Father paints sunsets every night. He sculpted Adam from the earth and His breath brought us to life. He hangs the named and numbered stars in the same way we place our most beloved ornaments artistically on a Christmas tree. 

The most amazing thing to me is that great beauty can follow brokenness. The broken pieces come together in new ways. 

"“Yet, you, Lord, are our Father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand.” – Isaiah 64:8

Art is more about the heart of any piece than perfection. Embrace the imperfect, the broken, and the restoration found in seeing with fresh eyes. 

Today, I am grateful for nature art. 

Thursday, July 9, 2026

Theo of Golden


 Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 190: Today, I am grateful for "Theo of Golden."

"Theo of Golden" was written by Allen Levi. A man with 70 years of life experiences and an artistic soul. The book is full of adjectives, colors, and the decadence of handwritten letters on premium paper. It is that and so much more. 

Life is not always easy. Reflecting on the book, one cannot help but conclude that we are shaped by the things that hurt us, but even more by the things that heal us. 

The book is fictional but the impact of relationships and connectedness is real. It is why I loved growing up in a farming community rich in small towns, history, simple living, and hard work. People who shared what they had with those who had less. They convinced the widow or the elderly that they had "too many eggs" or "too much meat" in the butchering. "It would be a sin for it to go to waste." 

"Theo of Golden" will make you smile, laugh, tear up (not sob), and look for ways to live well. Living well has little to do with wealth. Having enough is good; enough to share makes us rich. 

"Do not neglect to show hospitality to strangers, for thereby some have entertained angels unawares." -Hebrews 13:2

If you are traveling this summer, the Audiobook book is great! From the "Verbivore" bookstore's  cantankerous to Ellen of Golden, the characters are rich with many references to great literature, including the greatest book and greatest story of all time. 

Today, I am grateful for "Theo of Golden."

Wednesday, July 8, 2026

Children's Librarians

 

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 189: Today, I am grateful for children's librarians.

Children's librarians are often the game changers in the quest to teach children the love of reading. I love books and am blessed to call several librarians close friends, two family, and one a Daughter-in-Love. Today is Miss Emma's birthday!

Her love for reading is contagious. In a library there is something for everyone's reading diet and she loves to spark enthusiasm in young readers.

She blesses our community and our family every day. She can be gentle or fierce... as needed. She always makes us smile.

“She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.” -Proverbs 31:5

Today, I am grateful for children's librarians... especially Emma.

Tuesday, July 7, 2026

Favorite Shops

 


Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 188: Today, I am grateful for favorite shops.

I love Sutton's Bay, MI. It was so much fun visiting the Old Mission Peninsula on the 4th of July with some of our Michigan family. These cute little dragons keep me coming back. They have the sweetest faces. There are amazing glass items, too.

We have been enough that we know the shops we want to visit and then we try something new, too.

Today, I am grateful for favorite shops.

Monday, July 6, 2026

Rhubarb

 

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 187: Today, I am grateful for rhubarb.

One of the joys of the summer harvest is rhubarb. There are delicious things you can make with it from pie to ice cream sauce. Still fighting technology.

Another simple post.

Today, I am grateful for rhubarb.

Sunday, July 5, 2026

Making Memories

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 186: Today, I am grateful for making memories. 

I am so grateful for the gift of shared time and space. The Love of my Life grew up in a place where many people vacation. He still has siblings and extended family in Traverse City, Kingsley, and Interlochen. I forget how beautiful Michigan is in the summertime. 

Making memories with intention means pausing to take the pictures. In time, it is the pictures that help us remember. (And… I am fighting technology tonight… so I will add pictures later.)

Today, I am grateful for making memories.

Saturday, July 4, 2026

250 Years






Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 184: Today, I am grateful for 250 years.

I could write for days on my gratitude for this beautiful land. Most of my family on both sides came with nothing but hopes and dreams for land and a better life. A few came with nothing more than courage and determination.
Many were patriots and supporters of the cause of freedom. The days were long and the work was hard.
When the time came to declare independence… the risk of death for treason was real. They labored over the founding documents to ensure a strong union.
Not perfect but still the land of the free and the home of the brave.
Today, I am grateful for 250 years.

Friday, July 3, 2026

Outdoor Living

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 184: Today, I am grateful for outdoor living.
I am not a camper, but I enjoy time outside.
Feeling blessed!
Today, I am grateful for outdoor living.

 

Thursday, July 2, 2026

Extra Time

 

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 183: Today, I am grateful for little extra time. 

With the holiday falling on the weekend… many are still savoring the extra time off. How perfect for our 250th Anniversary of the USA!!!🇺🇸 

How many different languages came and merged into an English that is no longer the queen’s English? One of my favorite games is trying to figure out where people are from across this grand country. Genealogy research has made me think about it more. Regional and local accents likely go back to who settled there together. 

Enjoy your extra time this weekend… wherever you find it. 

Today, I am grateful for little extra time.


Wednesday, July 1, 2026

Stones of Remembrance

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 181: Today, I am grateful for stones of remembrance. 

I have been reading stories from the families of many patriots as we look to celebrate 250 years of the United States of America. So many of the soldiers were boys who became men fast. The women were vital in the mission to make the break from England. 150 years of a people brought together by the challenges, the hardships, and the hope that they might find a better life here than the one they left behind. It was a true melting pot. 

The posting of so many patriot graves and their stories is humbling. I am enjoying seeing all of the ways people are honoring their memories. Recently, DNA gave one lost teenager a name. He enlisted at fourteen. He was not the youngest. The DAR and SAR are some of the organizations providing grave markers for patriots. It is never to late too honor service and sacrifice. If we do not create markers... stones of remembrance... there will be no place to bring the next generation. 

The fight for independence was not one without sacrifice. It was a time of hardship and heroes... hunger and hope. A moral compass lit the lantern of freedom fueled by courage and great leaders shaped this new experiment of a government by the people and for the people. 

This scripture came to mind:

 “Then Joshua said to the Israelites, ‘In the future your children will ask, “What do these stones mean?” Then you can tell them, “This is where the Israelites crossed the Jordan on dry ground.” For the LORD your God dried up the river right before your eyes, and he kept it dry until you were all across, just as he did at the Red Sea when he dried it up until we had all crossed over. He did this so all the nations of the earth might know that the LORD’s hand is powerful, and so you might fear the LORD your God forever’” (Joshua 4:21–24, NLT)

Joshua led the people into the promised land, but he directed them to pause, remember, and place stones of remembrance. It is still a good practice. 

Today, I am grateful for stones of remembrance. 

Tuesday, June 30, 2026

First Bloom

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 181: Today, I am grateful for the first bloom. 

Yes! From seed to bloom, it has finally happened. With the cooler weather in early spring, I feel like the zinnias are taking a little longer this year. Perhaps, it is my human impatience. It is in the backyard and not in the front where I always expect the seeds to bloom first. 

It is pink! A wonderful reminder of all of the color that is to follow. From dead things like seeds can come new life. Just add the right amounts of water and sun. 

I harvested the first tomato last night, too. The wonder of it all is never lost on me. A little yellow flower becomes the fruit that we treat as a vegetable in so many of our meals. The cherry tomatoes are coming soon. 

"The heavens declare the glory of God; the skies proclaim the work of his hands." -Psalm 19:1

Today, I am grateful for the first bloom. 

Monday, June 29, 2026

Food Art

 

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 180: Today, I am grateful for food art. 

I enjoy the Pinterest boards that show food art. It is amazing what can be made with fruits, vegetables and meat. As the charcuterie craze has grown in the USA, the opportunity for food art is born. This iguana is too pretty to eat. 

When Chase and Walker were little, the Leanders were always with us. Ryan and Blake were like bonus cousins. Jill and I swapped childcare one day a week. There was a short season when Chase and Ryan were in school Walker was a baby, and Blake was my primary lunch guest. 

Blake had a limited diet of approved foods. He did eat peanut butter. Peanut butter has to be Jiff in our house. I believe it was in Jill's, too. One day she called to question me about Blake eating peanut butter. I assured her he did for me. The conversation went like this:

Jill: "Blake eats peanut butter sandwiches at your house, right?"
Valerie: "Yes."
Jill: "He won't eat them here." 
Valerie: "Is it Jiff peanut butter?"
Jill: "Yes." 
Valerie: "Do you slice it diagonally and flip the triangles to make a butterfly out of the sandwich?"
Jill: "No."
Valerie: "Try that." 

A traditional American snack is peanut butter in celery with raisins. It is called "ants on a log." Nutritional and cute. We once had a turkey veggie tray brought to our Big Bess Thanksgiving. It took time for the creator, but brought great delight at meal time. 

This passage reminds us to give thanks for the food before us. 

“Give us this day our daily bread.” – Matthew 6:11

Honestly, there is some guilt in the knowledge that we have such abundance that we can be creative and literally "play with our food." The very thing we were told not to do as children has become culinary art. 

Today, I am grateful for food art. 

Sunday, June 28, 2026

Examples of Patience


Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 179: Today, I am grateful for examples of patience. 

Nature does not rush. It reflects the beauty of God's design. The older we get, the more aware we are of how swiftly time passes. We have the same 24 hours in a day, but the sands of time seem to be falling faster in the hourglass. 

Hurry and worry steal so much joy from our days. To intentionally pause and take in the beauty around us brings richness to any day. Look for the uniqueness in ordinary things. Seashells, turtle shells, and flower blooms are not all the same. The wonder of it all can easily be lost because we do not take the time to observe the ordinary. I am 100% guilty of this! 

I am reminded of God's patience with us. His mercy and grace fall like rain on us daily. Do we extend the same to those around us? Do pause to testify of the goodness He brings to our ordinary days? 

"The Lord is not slow to fulfill his promise as some count slowness, but is patient toward you, not wishing that any should perish, but that all should reach repentance." -2 Peter 3:9

Today, I am grateful for examples of patience. 


Saturday, June 27, 2026

Recipe Memories

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 178: Today, I am grateful for recipe memories.

I saw this image for strawberry pretzel salad and smiled. This was Jill's go-to recipe for gatherings. It is so good. I have never made it, because she always did. I think it might have originally come from Donna Eigsti Roth. I am not 100% sure but it is delicious. (It is best the same day; there are rarely leftovers.)

Summer family gatherings and potlucks bring out our best recipes. The kaleidoscope of colors on the table is appealing. The lines move swiftly and the plates are always full. There is always plenty of laughter and conversation. The recipe exchange is part of the fellowship. 

The recipes from loved ones who are no longer with us are true treasures. Pride of Iowa will always make me think of Grandma Opal Maxine. Mama had a pineapple pie recipe that Uncle Lee loved. She never missed an opportunity to treat her brother. I need to look for it in her recipe box. I do not believe I have made it. 

My Turtle Brownies are a recipe I am often asked to bring. Turtle Brownies are expected at big family gatherings. What's not to love about a dark chocolate cake mix, butter, caramel, evaporated milk, chocolate chips, and pecans? Uncle Bob, Cousin Jim, niece in our hearts Kinga, and our dear friend, Gerald look for them. I am grateful that Jennifer has pans big enough for double batches and a double oven. 

Writing this post is making me smile. It is more about the love that goes into the food, more than any one recipe. And, it is about the way it is received with joy and anticipation. 

This scripture reminds me of God's desire to feed, protect, and bless his children: 

"You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; you anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows." -Psalm 23:5

Today, I am grateful for recipe memories.

Friday, June 26, 2026

Discernment

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 177: Today, I am grateful for discernment. 

This image is from a social media bulletin board. I sparked many thoughts this morning. Discernment is not something we talk about enough in a world full of deception. 

In an era dominated by AI, discernment has become both rarer and more critical. Algorithmically fueled division spreads without restraint, making it easy to forget that the truth rarely occupies the extremes. A wise perspective holds that "there are two sides to every story, and the truth lies somewhere in the middle." But this raises a deeper paradox: can something be truthful, yet still inaccurate? Absolutely. And it is precisely in that nuance where true discernment lives.

"The truth, the whole truth, and nothing but the truth" is associated with the oath taken before testifying in a courtroom, historically with a hand on the Bible. It is a bold statement. Not just before the judge and jury, but God. A Bible is not required, but it makes a statement. Commandment number nine states, "You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor" (Exodus 20:16).

"Deception is present and discernment is required at every click of the remote control or turn of the radio knob. It reminds me of the old Paul Harvey broadcast that warned against the potential danger of bringing televisions into our homes. Imagine what he would think of our world today. Every answer—or at least an engineered answer—is at our fingertips.

'And no wonder, for even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light' (2 Corinthians 11:14).

I love to learn. I love discovering new things. Knowledge itself is not evil; it is how we use it. But when knowledge takes God's place in our lives and in our hearts, it becomes the altar where we worship. This thirst for knowledge is not new. It began in a garden where the temptation was to know what God knew… to be God's equal. They had only known the good, until their eyes were opened and they were introduced to evil. As Proverbs 16:18 reminds us, pride goes before a fall. The battleground hasn't changed; it has just moved to our screens."

Today, I am grateful for discernment. 


Thursday, June 25, 2026

Traveling Light

 

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 176: Today, I am grateful for the challenge of traveling light. 

First born and "just in case" are in my genetics. It makes traveling light a challenge. It is so hard for me to keep it simple and basic when we travel. Randy has learned great patience over the past 42 years as a couple. 

This quote reminded me of the value in traveling light, although it is not referring to luggage. 

"Bring love wherever you go. Shine light wherever it's dark. Leave blessings wherever you've been. Be kind wherever you are." - Mary Davis

It is great advice and an excellent way to travel through life. We can make a splash or we can make a difference. A few can do both. 

Love, light , blessings, and kindness weigh little to nothing, but they have the power to change a home, a community, and a culture. 

"Carry no moneybag, no knapsack, no sandals, and greet no one on the road." -Luke 10:4

The instruction was to travel light to keep the purpose in focus. "Greet no one" was to stay mission focused, not an instruction to be unfriendly. Traveling light allowed freedom to be truly present in sharing the good news of Christ. 

Obviously, in our culture today we need money, a bag, and shoes to travel. How can we travel light, be the light, and lighten the load of others as we share the heart of Jesus? 

Today, I am grateful for the challenge of traveling light. 

Wednesday, June 24, 2026

Modern Miracles











Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 175: Today, I am grateful for modern miracles. 

It is a day for medicine and miracles. 

If you have heard me go on and on about "The Longbranch" restaurant back home in L'Erable , IL, I will make no apology. It is worth the 2 hour drive and I am blessed it is not far from Matt and Jennifer's house. They catered Ciara and Kenzie's weddings. It is our favorite place to eat when we are home. "Nick and Lindsay" are a part of many conversations, from the magic they make in the kitchen to a "Cheers" like welcome when you walk in the door of the restaurant. It is the epitome of what is great about living in small towns an hour from Chicago. 

A year ago, Nick got sick. Honestly, I do not think I've met Nick. Lindsay is the one out front when we are there with family and friends. Ultimately, it was kidney disease and it was stage 5. 

Kidney disease is a part of our Bess-Watson (St. John) family story. Grandma Opal Maxine died of kidney disease. Many have prayed with us for my cousin Tara Jo in recent years. Tara Jo has been blessed with the miracle of two kidneys. 

My Bess side of the family is big and the cousins are many. I was in college when they were born in their toddler/childhood years. In the pack, a group of three cousins formed a fierce closeness. They had no sisters. Tara-Jo (a brother), Crystal (an only child), and Molly (one oldest brother and four more... she was the only girl in the middle of identical twin boys). When Tara-Jo needed a kidney, Molly was tested but not even the same blood type. She promised herself that if she could ever give the gift of life... she would. 

Who would have ever dreamed that Molly would match Nick? Seriously, you can't make up that kind of miracle. And, they did not know each other, even being in neighboring towns. It feels like hope and a God-wink. 

In a few hours, the team at Rush will begin the work of harvesting Molly's gift and placing her kidney in Nick. I believe Crystal and Tara Jo are with her, if they can be. Her husband, Brian, loves her deeply and will be her rock as she heals. Her girls have witnessed how "loving your neighbor" looks in a big and beautiful way. Who knew it would be literally... a community neighbor? God did! 

"The Lord sustains him on his sickbed; in his illness you restore him to full health." -Psalm 41:3

Today, I am grateful for modern miracles. 

Tuesday, June 23, 2026

Undying Hope

 

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 174: Today, I am grateful for undying hope.

This image sparked joy in my soul today. It talks about a decision we make every day, but adds a little whimsy to the final thought. 

"I've decided to carry some undying hope with me every day. As a treat."

Every single day we make choices about what we carry around with us. How we frame the day matters. Undying hope keeps us going. We know who set the stars in place and calls them out by name. The earth and other planets remain in their orbit, which is for us... the perfect distance from the sun. 

An astronaut's life was recently changed when seeing it from space brought him to a place of understanding that no accident brought us to this time and place. 

Sunrise comes each morning to wake the day. Sunset reminds us to rest. They come each day in such a way that we often miss the wonder and magic of it all. (Tip... add a beach and an ocean and the wonder is increased.) We put our hope in nature's rhythm and rules and forget to worship the One who created it all so perfectly. 

Evil is present in this world. Bad things happen, but God's goodness is with us now and forever.   

"Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen." -Hebrews 11:1

Whatever the day brings, we can choose to carry a pocket full of undying hope every day. 

Today, I am grateful for undying hope.


Monday, June 22, 2026

Keeping Watch

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 173: Today, I am grateful for the watchkeepers. 

Those who keep watch keep us safe. Keeping watch has a long history with sailing vessels, but the idea has drifted into other military divisions and safety realms. Those who keep watch keep us safe. They look for fires, system failures, and security breaches. They are the ones to first see a problem that needs to be managed. Watchkeepers often save lives and save the day. 

We have a four-legged watchkeeper who is always on guard for suspicious people in the neighborhood. It is funny. If people are familiar, she is not as bothered. She recognizes strangers and strange dogs she does not know and goes on high alert. She alerts us to the comings and the goings in the neighborhood. 

A friend handed me this scripture once. I keep it close at my desk:

"the Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore." -Psalm 121:8

I am grateful that our Lord is steadfast in keeping watch. He does not need rest or sleep. What a comfort it is to know that our God watches over our comings and our goings! 

Nothing is unknown to Him. Evil is still present in the world, but we have a watchkeeper. We have those "trust your gut" moments when we make choices or we ignore the feeling. When we recognize "something is not right," we can investigate and respond appropriately. 

Situational awareness is key for those who keep watch. 

Today, I am grateful for the watchkeepers. 

Sunday, June 21, 2026

Shelter

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 172: Today, I am grateful for shelter.

It is Father's Day in the USA. It is a day of mixed feelings as we celebrate the fathers and grandfathers around us. It can be mixed with sadness when we are the "oldest" generation in our family. Matt and I talk about Dad often. There is much to remember. He was one of a kind. We miss him. 

I think about the fathers we chose in marriage... our partners in parenting. I am grateful for mine. He would do anything for the kids and for me... and he often does. Love is in the little things. 

I think about the "Father Figures" beyond those given to us by birth. John Story comes quickly to mind. If you knew him... you know. My Uncle Larry was a second Dad... who loved us and disciplined us like his own. Uncle Mel taught me how much a parent's heart aches over their children's struggles... even when they don't express it to their children. Herb Roth spent 40 years as a father and grandfather figure in our lives. Monte Carl Willis Smith - a brother in love and uncle- but more like a grandpa to our kids. Denny Holm cannot be left out. He was one of a kind, too. I am sure I have forgotten someone... know it is not intentional. 

These men provided us with unconditional love, shelter, wisdom, and so much more. Father's provide shelter in such a way that we can rest when we are with them. Safe and sound. 

I love Joseph! I refuse to buy Christmas stamps that show Mary and Jesus if there is no Joseph. He chose to go through with the marriage knowing they would be laughed at, talked about, and disbelieved. He had some strong urging, but ultimately... he had to be willing. Joseph trusted God and fled with Jesus and Mary to Egypt until it was safe to return home, when Herod would have had the baby killed. Fathers protect their children. 

We can dwell and abide in the shadow of our Heavenly Father who covers us with His hand. 

"He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will abide in the shadow of the Almighty." -Psalm 91:1

Today, I am grateful for shelter.

Saturday, June 20, 2026

Dress With Intention

 

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 171: Today, I am grateful for a reminder to dress with intention. 

"Dress like you have a brunch reservation, even if you're just going to Target." 

The thought is a little old school. In college, we had to dress for the day. Jeans were after 5 p.m.  I am not that old, but my university stuck with that standard long past when others did. My classmates at other schools could wear sweats to class. 

I never minded, except in the dead of winter, with the lake effect winds up our skirts. For the most part, it taught us how to feel comfortable in professional clothing. I think it gave us an advantage in interviews when we graduated. I know that I am in the small minority with my opinion, but that is fine with me. I've always preferred skirts and dresses to dress pants or jeans. 

Now, I love comfy, cozy clothes that look dressed up and professional. Don't get me wrong. I've never liked clothes that are too tight. I guess it is why I love the gypsy, bohemian look with plenty of rings, bangles, and accessories or... in absolute contrast ... a simple sheath dress. My idea of jeans is a jean skirt. My two shoe seasons are sandals and boots. 

We don't dress fabulous every day, but dressing up to show up matters. For the guys, dressing up might mean switching from a t-shirt to a collared shirt. We do not have to be "fancy" to create clothes that make us feel good. Thrift and second hand stores have great treasures that you do not have to feel guilty wearing once or twice or ignoring the care labels. Upcycle, Recycle. Our clothes do not make us, but the do impact how we feel. 

Mama always said a little blush, lipstick, and mascara go a long way. They change how we feel, even if others do not notice the difference. I'm allergic to most blush, so I focus on dressing my eyes instead. Mama's words run through my head often. 

"Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing." -1 Thessalonians 5:11

A kind word can fall at just the right time. If you see someone sparkle, encourage them. They may need a word of affirmation more than you now. 

Today, I am grateful for a reminder to dress with intention.

Friday, June 19, 2026

Keep On Keeping On

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 170: Today, I am grateful for the beauty in "keep on keeping on." 

Poetry has always been beautiful to me. This poem from Walt Whitman brought to mind the value and importance of "keep on keeping on." 

"The earth is rude, silent, incomprehensible at first; 
Be not discouraged - keep on-
there are divine things will envelop'd; 
I swear to you there are divine things more beautiful than words can tell."

It reminds me of the days of waiting for the ground to warm enough to sprout the seeds sleeping in a blanket of dirt. Just when you are about to give up, new life begins. Spring green is full of warmth. Beauty is all around us if we pause to take in the wonder. 

The enemy of our souls speaks lies and discouragement. It is easy to forget that divine and beautiful things appear in God's time, not ours. Our job is to keep on keeping on. Pops of beauty appear in unexpected places. We often miss them in our hurry to "get through" this day. Even in the "keep on keeping on" seasons, there is wonder to be enjoyed. 

"Do not grow weary in doing good; at the right time, you will reap a harvest if you do not give up." -Galatians 6:9

Today, I am grateful for the beauty in "keep on keeping on." 

Thursday, June 18, 2026

Healing Things


Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 169: Today, I am grateful for healing things. 

"We can't heal the world today, but we can begin with a voice of compassion, a heart of love, and an act of kindness." -Mary Davis

Mama Ina Mae always reminded us that healing takes time and patience. "Leave it alone" was often heard when we would mess with the typical wounds that happen when living wild and free. Scrapes, falls, and other small injuries occur when you are working or just having fun. 

100% aloe was her favorite wound care choice. From burns to growing new skin after Grandpa Harry lost a part of his foot under the lawnmower... aloe vera was her wound care solution. It always worked... to the surprise of the health care workers. Twice daily we dressed that foot. Matt remembers going with Dad to get the best brand of aloe vera... I think at the health food store. Grandma's aloe vera plants could not support the volume needed for twice daily care, but that is where we started. 

I am grateful for the lessons learned when we helped care for my grandparents, especially during those days when Grandma had Alzheimer's and Grandpa was recovering from that accident. I was caring for Grandma when Matt came in with Grandpa, his boot and foot partly missing. Matt was a kid and I was a teen. We had to problem-solve fast. There were no cell phones. No 911. Just quick thinking. And, although our hearts were racing, everyone tried to stay calm. Calm, gentleness, and compassion go a long way in a crisis and in the healing process. 

I recently used aloe vera for a burn from some boiling water. It still is a game changer. It is one of my favorite "healing things" to have on hand with the Watkins salve. I smile and think of Mama when I use them. 

The world is a mess. Aloe vera cannot heal all of the brokenness. It goes much deeper. Wounded souls take time to heal. A voice of compassion, a heart full of love, and acts of kindness can be like aloe vera on a wound. Healing sometimes requires that we do something different or "leave it alone" instead of picking at the wound. 

I am grateful for the Great Physician who gave us the "leaves of the trees for healing." He is the one who can restore our souls.

"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." -Psalm 147:3

Today, I am grateful for healing things. 

Wednesday, June 17, 2026

Quiet Blessings

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 168: Today, I am grateful for quiet blessings. 

There is nothing quite as peaceful as a favorite cup of a warm morning beverage accompanied by wildlife playing in the yard. Birds, squirrels, and bunnies abound on summer mornings. It is mostly quiet and definitely good for the soul. 

"Not every blessing is loud. Some arrive quietly, like birds at the feeder and peace settling into your soul."

Quiet blessings are the ones we forget to count. Our favorite people and fur babies around us add to the contentment. For those who are on summer break, there is an unhurriedness that is restorative. 

Other quiet blessings that come to mind are my large print Bibles and zooms on our screens and phones. Simple but game changers when we need them to be. 

Every day has moments that are simple, quiet, and very good. We are preparing for another round of storms here in "Heart of Illinois." It makes me more appreciative of the quiet blessings that surround us at the break of day. 

"The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; His mercies never come to an end;  they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness." -Lamentations 3:22-23

Take in the calm before the storm, figuratively and literally. 

Today, I am grateful for quiet blessings. 


Tuesday, June 16, 2026

A Second Look

 

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 167: Today, I am grateful for a second look. 

This owl picture caught my eye. He is adorable. It reminded me of the power in perspective. Perspective is very much a part of daily life, including our faith journeys. 

This little owl reminds us that there are different ways to change what we see. Sometimes, it is as easy as changing the level from which we are taking in the view. Photography uses perspective all of the time, often achieving it by a twist of the camera. 

It is so easy to see things only from the spot that is familiar, comfortable, and easy. There are times we need to take another look. There is wisdom in looking from different angles and taking in different points of view. 

"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him." -James 1:5

A second look from a different viewpoint can fill in the holes in understanding. It might mean refocusing. I could mean finding clarity. It might cause us to pause and be prayerful, asking God for wisdom, which is always a good idea. 

Today, I am grateful for a second look. 

Monday, June 15, 2026

From To Dos into Ta-Das

 

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 166: Today, I am grateful for when "to dos" turn into "ta-das."

Don't you love Monday morning ambitions? A great list of things you want to accomplish is good, but a done list is better. Some things take more time than others. Simple acts can be gratifying. Big ones take time and energy, but are worth taking to completion. 

Some things are never "done" for long like cleaning the house, but they are still good in the moment and for the few days the house feels truly clean. 

Savor the small moment of success and celebrate the big ones. 

"Whatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men, knowing that from the Lord you will receive the inheritance as your reward. You are serving the Lord Christ." Colossians 3:23-24

You've got this! 

Today, I am grateful for when "to dos" turn into "ta-das."

Sunday, June 14, 2026

Seers

 

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 165: Today, I am grateful for seers. 

"The man who has been taught by the Holy Spirit will be a seer rather than a scholar. The difference is that the scholar sees and the seer sees through; and that is a mighty difference indeed. " -A.W. Tozer

Knowledge and wisdom are two very different things. Wisdom does not come from knowing God's word, it comes from being in it. To read it and absorb it is different from simply knowing the words. Being filled with His Spirit so that we feel the tug when we veer off the ancient way. 

Setting our eye on Him helps us to set our "true North" making it harder to get lost. 

"Thus says the LORD: “Stand by the roads, and look, and ask for the ancient paths, where the good way is; and walk in it, and find rest for your souls. But they said, ‘We will not walk in it.’" -Jeremiah 6:16

Disobedience is a decision that impacts every decision after it. The enemy of our souls longs to create a sea of shame with waves of regret that swallow us up. His grace is deep; His love is as wide as the East is from the West. 

Seek and you will find. You are seen and known. 

Today, I am grateful for seers. 

Saturday, June 13, 2026

So Much More..

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 164: Today, I am grateful for so much more.

This quote grabbed my heart today:

"If you are going to be used by God, He will take you through a number of experiences that are not meant for you personally at all. They are designed to make you useful in His hands, and to enable you to understand what takes place in the lives of others" -Oswald Chambers

Even when life is hard, our God is still good. I see it at every twist and turn that comes our way. We live a part of His much bigger story. No piece of a puzzle is insignificant. Some days you might feel like another "blue" piece in a puzzle full of water or sky, but each one is still unique. Each one is important or something is missing. 

Our struggles may be key in someone else's story. We have all been moved by the actions or testimonies of others who stay firm in trials and troubles. Our God is still moving the pieces. Our stories are not over... even after we are gone. 

Then this was my verse of the day: 

"If you then, who are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will the heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!” -Luke 11:13

It is always good to be reminded of the goodness of God. He is so much more than we ever imagine Him to be. 

Today, I am grateful for so much more.



Friday, June 12, 2026

Protection in the Storm

 





Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 163: Today, I am grateful for protection in the storm.

Walker and Amber were hit the hardest with roof and gutter damage, but never lost power. Chase and Emma lost power, but no known damage. Our little pocket of the neighborhood lost branches an small trees in places, but the worst missed us.

Our dear friend (who has been like family for 35 years) was caught in the mess on 74. She sheltered at the Goodfield, IL, gas station by Busy Corner, but felt winds she had never felt. She was heading West, so she saw the massive semi truck and trailer accident on 74E. Good Samaritans were trying to help those in the trucks. She and many others were praying for those inside awaiting rescue workers who were struggling to get there in the storm.
The Crandalls lost nearly all of their trees but God spared the house and cars. Seriously, it was as if angels put the trees down safely so the house and cars were spared.
Todd and Sarah had some fence damage. The Leanders are good. Ryan headed out to help a friend whose home was hit.
The huge trees uprooted are in Idlewood park where we spend many Thursdays in the summer enjoying concerts. Tonight was obviously cancelled. (Some of the trees pictured are there.)
I am sure we will hear more today, but we are grateful for protection in the storm. We will hear more today about their declared status. The best status of all is safe.
Today, I am grateful for protection in the storm.