Keeping Watch

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 173: Today, I am grateful for the watchkeepers. 

Those who keep watch keep us safe. Keeping watch has a long history with sailing vessels, but the idea has drifted into other military divisions and safety realms. Those who keep watch keep us safe. They look for fires, system failures, and security breaches. They are the ones to first see a problem that needs to be managed. Watchkeepers often save lives and save the day. 

We have a four-legged watchkeeper who is always on guard for suspicious people in the neighborhood. It is funny. If people are familiar, she is not as bothered. She recognizes strangers and strange dogs she does not know and goes on high alert. She alerts us to the comings and the goings in the neighborhood. 

A friend handed me this scripture once. I keep it close at my desk:

"the Lord will watch over your coming and going both now and forevermore." -Psalm 121:8

I am grateful that our Lord is steadfast in keeping watch. He does not need rest or sleep. What a comfort it is to know that our God watches over our comings and our goings! 

Nothing is unknown to Him. Evil is still present in the world, but we have a watchkeeper. We have those "trust your gut" moments when we make choices or we ignore the feeling. When we recognize "something is not right," we can investigate and respond appropriately. 

Situational awareness is key for those who keep watch. 

Today, I am grateful for the watchkeepers. 

Shelter

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 172: Today, I am grateful for shelter.

It is Father's Day in the USA. It is a day of mixed feelings as we celebrate the fathers and grandfathers around us. It can be mixed with sadness when we are the "oldest" generation in our family. Matt and I talk about Dad often. There is much to remember. He was one of a kind. We miss him. 

I think about the fathers we chose in marriage... our partners in parenting. I am grateful for mine. He would do anything for the kids and for me... and he often does. Love is in the little things. 

I think about the "Father Figures" beyond those given to us by birth. John Story comes quickly to mind. If you knew him... you know. My Uncle Larry was a second Dad... who loved us and disciplined us like his own. Uncle Mel taught me how much a parent's heart aches over their children's struggles... even when they don't express it to their children. Herb Roth spent 40 years as a father and grandfather figure in our lives. Monte Carl Willis Smith - a brother in love and uncle- but more like a grandpa to our kids. Denny Holm cannot be left out. He was one of a kind, too. I am sure I have forgotten someone... know it is not intentional. 

These men provided us with unconditional love, shelter, wisdom, and so much more. Father's provide shelter in such a way that we can rest when we are with them. Safe and sound. 

I love Joseph! I refuse to buy Christmas stamps that show Mary and Jesus if there is no Joseph. He chose to go through with the marriage knowing they would be laughed at, talked about, and disbelieved. He had some strong urging, but ultimately... he had to be willing. Joseph trusted God and fled with Jesus and Mary to Egypt until it was safe to return home, when Herod would have had the baby killed. Fathers protect their children. 

We can dwell and abide in the shadow of our Heavenly Father who covers us with His hand. 

"He who dwells in the shelter of the Most High will abide in the shadow of the Almighty." -Psalm 91:1

Today, I am grateful for shelter.

Dress With Intention

 

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 171: Today, I am grateful for a reminder to dress with intention. 

"Dress like you have a brunch reservation, even if you're just going to Target." 

The thought is a little old school. In college, we had to dress for the day. Jeans were after 5 p.m.  I am not that old, but my university stuck with that standard long past when others did. My classmates at other schools could wear sweats to class. 

I never minded, except in the dead of winter, with the lake effect winds up our skirts. For the most part, it taught us how to feel comfortable in professional clothing. I think it gave us an advantage in interviews when we graduated. I know that I am in the small minority with my opinion, but that is fine with me. I've always preferred skirts and dresses to dress pants or jeans. 

Now, I love comfy, cozy clothes that look dressed up and professional. Don't get me wrong. I've never liked clothes that are too tight. I guess it is why I love the gypsy, bohemian look with plenty of rings, bangles, and accessories or... in absolute contrast ... a simple sheath dress. My idea of jeans is a jean skirt. My two shoe seasons are sandals and boots. 

We don't dress fabulous every day, but dressing up to show up matters. For the guys, dressing up might mean switching from a t-shirt to a collared shirt. We do not have to be "fancy" to create clothes that make us feel good. Thrift and second hand stores have great treasures that you do not have to feel guilty wearing once or twice or ignoring the care labels. Upcycle, Recycle. Our clothes do not make us, but the do impact how we feel. 

Mama always said a little blush, lipstick, and mascara go a long way. They change how we feel, even if others do not notice the difference. I'm allergic to most blush, so I focus on dressing my eyes instead. Mama's words run through my head often. 

"Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing." -1 Thessalonians 5:11

A kind word can fall at just the right time. If you see someone sparkle, encourage them. They may need a word of affirmation more than you now. 

Today, I am grateful for a reminder to dress with intention.

Keep On Keeping On

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 170: Today, I am grateful for the beauty in "keep on keeping on." 

Poetry has always been beautiful to me. This poem from Walt Whitman brought to mind the value and importance of "keep on keeping on." 

"The earth is rude, silent, incomprehensible at first; 
Be not discouraged - keep on-
there are divine things will envelop'd; 
I swear to you there are divine things more beautiful than words can tell."

It reminds me of the days of waiting for the ground to warm enough to sprout the seeds sleeping in a blanket of dirt. Just when you are about to give up, new life begins. Spring green is full of warmth. Beauty is all around us if we pause to take in the wonder. 

The enemy of our souls speaks lies and discouragement. It is easy to forget that divine and beautiful things appear in God's time, not ours. Our job is to keep on keeping on. Pops of beauty appear in unexpected places. We often miss them in our hurry to "get through" this day. Even in the "keep on keeping on" seasons, there is wonder to be enjoyed. 

"Do not grow weary in doing good; at the right time, you will reap a harvest if you do not give up." -Galatians 6:9

Today, I am grateful for the beauty in "keep on keeping on." 

Healing Things

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 169: Today, I am grateful for healing things. 

"We can't heal the world today, but we can begin with a voice of compassion, a heart of love, and an act of kindness." -Mary Davis

Mama Ina Mae always reminded us that healing takes time and patience. "Leave it alone" was often heard when we would mess with the typical wounds that happen when living wild and free. Scrapes, falls, and other small injuries occur when you are working or just having fun. 

100% aloe was her favorite wound care choice. From burns to growing new skin after Grandpa Harry lost a part of his foot under the lawnmower... aloe vera was her wound care solution. It always worked... to the surprise of the health care workers. Twice daily we dressed that foot. Matt remembers going with Dad to get the best brand of aloe vera... I think at the health food store. Grandma's aloe vera plants could not support the volume needed for twice daily care, but that is where we started. 

I am grateful for the lessons learned when we helped care for my grandparents, especially during those days when Grandma had Alzheimer's and Grandpa was recovering from that accident. I was caring for Grandma when Matt came in with Grandpa, his boot and foot partly missing. Matt was a kid and I was a teen. We had to problem-solve fast. There were no cell phones. No 911. Just quick thinking. And, although our hearts were racing, everyone tried to stay calm. Calm, gentleness, and compassion go a long way in a crisis and in the healing process. 

I recently used aloe vera for a burn from some boiling water. It still is a game changer. It is one of my favorite "healing things" to have on hand with the Watkins salve. I smile and think of Mama when I use them. 

The world is a mess. Aloe vera cannot heal all of the brokenness. It goes much deeper. Wounded souls take time to heal. A voice of compassion, a heart full of love, and acts of kindness can be like aloe vera on a wound. Healing sometimes requires that we do something different or "leave it alone" instead of picking at the wound. 

I am grateful for the Great Physician who gave us the "leaves of the trees for healing." He is the one who can restore our souls.

"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." -Psalm 147:3

Today, I am grateful for healing things. 

Quiet Blessings

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 168: Today, I am grateful for quiet blessings. 

There is nothing quite as peaceful as a favorite cup of a warm morning beverage accompanied by wildlife playing in the yard. Birds, squirrels, and bunnies abound on summer mornings. It is mostly quiet and definitely good for the soul. 

"Not every blessing is loud. Some arrive quietly, like birds at the feeder and peace settling into your soul."

Quiet blessings are the ones we forget to count. Our favorite people and fur babies around us add to the contentment. For those who are on summer break, there is an unhurriedness that is restorative. 

Other quiet blessings that come to mind are my large print Bibles and zooms on our screens and phones. Simple but game changers when we need them to be. 

Every day has moments that are simple, quiet, and very good. We are preparing for another round of storms here in "Heart of Illinois." It makes me more appreciative of the quiet blessings that surround us at the break of day. 

"The steadfast love of the Lord never ceases; His mercies never come to an end;  they are new every morning; great is your faithfulness." -Lamentations 3:22-23

Take in the calm before the storm, figuratively and literally. 

Today, I am grateful for quiet blessings. 

A Second Look

 

Daily Gratitude Year 14-Day 167: Today, I am grateful for a second look. 

This owl picture caught my eye. He is adorable. It reminded me of the power in perspective. Perspective is very much a part of daily life, including our faith journeys. 

This little owl reminds us that there are different ways to change what we see. Sometimes, it is as easy as changing the level from which we are taking in the view. Photography uses perspective all of the time, often achieving it by a twist of the camera. 

It is so easy to see things only from the spot that is familiar, comfortable, and easy. There are times we need to take another look. There is wisdom in looking from different angles and taking in different points of view. 

"If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him." -James 1:5

A second look from a different viewpoint can fill in the holes in understanding. It might mean refocusing. I could mean finding clarity. It might cause us to pause and be prayerful, asking God for wisdom, which is always a good idea. 

Today, I am grateful for a second look.