"Dress like you have a brunch reservation, even if you're just going to Target."
The thought is a little old school. In college, we had to dress for the day. Jeans were after 5 p.m. I am not that old, but my university stuck with that standard long past when others did. My classmates at other schools could wear sweats to class.
I never minded, except in the dead of winter, with the lake effect winds up our skirts. For the most part, it taught us how to feel comfortable in professional clothing. I think it gave us an advantage in interviews when we graduated. I know that I am in the small minority with my opinion, but that is fine with me. I've always preferred skirts and dresses to dress pants or jeans.
Now, I love comfy, cozy clothes that look dressed up and professional. Don't get me wrong. I've never liked clothes that are too tight. I guess it is why I love the gypsy, bohemian look with plenty of rings, bangles, and accessories or... in absolute contrast ... a simple sheath dress. My idea of jeans is a jean skirt. My two shoe seasons are sandals and boots.
We don't dress fabulous every day, but dressing up to show up matters. For the guys, dressing up might mean switching from a t-shirt to a collared shirt. We do not have to be "fancy" to create clothes that make us feel good. Thrift and second hand stores have great treasures that you do not have to feel guilty wearing once or twice or ignoring the care labels. Upcycle, Recycle. Our clothes do not make us, but the do impact how we feel.
Mama always said a little blush, lipstick, and mascara go a long way. They change how we feel, even if others do not notice the difference. I'm allergic to most blush, so I focus on dressing my eyes instead. Mama's words run through my head often.
"Therefore encourage one another and build one another up, just as you are doing." -1 Thessalonians 5:11
A kind word can fall at just the right time. If you see someone sparkle, encourage them. They may need a word of affirmation more than you now.
Today, I am grateful for a reminder to dress with intention.
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