Dark & Light

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 40: Today, I am grateful for the dark and the light. 

Og Mandino is one of my forever favorite authors. His writings have influenced my perspectives and approach to trials for nearly 40 years. It is hard to pick one favorite. The world mostly knows him for "The Greatest Salesman in the World." If you have not read it, it has very little to do with sales and much more to do with creating a life well lived. 

"The Mission" and "The Greatest Miracle in the World" are other favorites by the same author. They are quick reads and worth the time. We cannot always choose what happens to us. We can choose how we respond. 

"I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet I will endure the darkness because it shows me the stars." -Og Mandino

I love light. I love white walls, glass, and wide open spaces. I love the stars, too. 

A clear night sky is a tapestry of light as the stars shine bright. For thousands of years, stories have been born as human's watched the stars for entertainment, guidance, and beauty. One particular star was a birth announcement. 

This is one of my favorite passages:

"Look up into the heavens. Who created all the stars? He brings them out like an army, one after another, calling each by its name. Because of his great power and incomparable strength, not a single one is missing." -Isaiah 40:26

He calls them by name, and not one is missing. He knows us by name, too. He is the light in our darkness, but when the darkness comes, take time to look at the stars. 

Today, I am grateful for the dark and the light. 

 

Insight

 

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 40: Today, I am grateful for insight. 

"Sir, my concern is not whether God is on our side;  my greatest concern is to be on God's side, for God is always right." -Abraham Lincoln

Another Abraham Lincoln quote caught my eye. I love this image of the 16th president in prayer. He carried the weight of the country on his shoulders, but he did not carry it alone. 

He was mocked, called names, and underestimated. His demeanor was humble, so some thought him weak. His writings and records from those close to him remind us that he sought Godly insight. When he was weak, he knew His God would not abandon him. He hated division. He he had tasted deep grief. He did not want war. 

"This is my command—be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” -Joshua 1:9

He knew that whatever the day might bring, he could cling to his True North. His greatest advisor met him in private, anytime of the day and night. Abe Lincoln was a man. He was not perfect, but he sought insight from the Word of God. He wanted to be on God's side. 

Today, I am grateful for insight. 

Love Grows

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 39: Today, I am grateful love that grows.

This is one of my favorite President Abraham Lincoln quotes.

"Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power." -Abraham Lincoln

We celebrate president's day next week. It was a painful time of division in our nation's history. Lincoln hated seeing brother against brother. He hated slavery. He hated seeing families with empty seats around the table.

He was a man who tasted loss at a young age and was deeply impacted by the griefs he carried. His mother, his first love, and the deaths of his sons.

Lincoln loved to read. Without many books available, he read the Bible many times in his youth. The words and knowledge of God's character was written on his heart. It made him entertaining at times in the courtroom. His wit was quick and his knowledge of the Word was deep.

Many books on Lincoln, including his own writings made a record of the weight of the power in his hands. At times, he was able to do the right thing even if it was unwelcome by many. Other times, he struggled to choose the lesser of two evils. He lived in the proverbial spot between the rock and a hard place.

Character is who you are when know one is looking. Loving our neighbor takes on many faces, but love is always the best choice. In love we learn to forgive and to appreciate our differences. In love we can press on when the weight is heavy because we can share the load.

"Dear brothers and sisters, we can’t help but thank God for you, because your faith is flourishing and your love for one another is growing." -2 Thessalonians 1:3

Keep loving.

Today, I am grateful love that grows.

The Flip-Side

 

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 39: Today, I am grateful for the flip-side.

Many years ago we did a program with the K-6th on Wednesday nights that I have never forgotten. I was not keen on the idea of a video each week, because we typically had used short dramas to teach the lesson, and the kids loved it.

I watched a video or two and was convinced. We spent the entire year teaching about how Jesus's upside down thinking. He flipped how people thought and lived. The lessons encouraged all of us to look beyond ourselves to see the needs around us.

The teachings of Jesus were about loving others, not self-improvement. Of course, living out his instructions quite often flips our way of thinking.

My friend, Sarah, just returned from a trip to Zimbabwe, Africa. I have not had a chance to see all of the pictures and hear the stories, but I know it was impactful beyond measure. She helped at an orphanage during their visit. They had a chance to be the hands and feet of Jesus.

Sarah is a nurse and she has a huge heart. I know it was hard for her to see the struggles and suffering that are a normal part of daily life in a place where they struggle to meet basic needs. I know she and Pastor Andrew made an impact in their time there.

“You have heard the law that says, ‘Love your neighbor’ and hate your enemy. But I say, love your enemies! Pray for those who persecute you! In that way, you will be acting as true children of your Father in heaven. For he gives his sunlight to both the evil and the good, and he sends rain on the just and the unjust alike." -Matthew 5:43-45

It was Superbowl Sunday (#60). A time to come together with family and friends to enjoy football and food. Those who choose opposing jerseys are not really our enemies. They all enjoy football and the festivities that are a part of the evening. The winter Olympics are in progress, too. There was much to root for. Both had stories of players, coaches, and the history of the games. In both events, there are stories of athletes changing teams or changing countries in the case of the Olympics.

It is touching to hear the athlete's stories. Resilience and hard work are a common thread. A few make it to the podium. On the flip-side are those who work just as hard, who do not win. How they act when they are discouraged or defeated speaks volumes about their character and their purpose. Sometimes the greatest lessons come from the flip-side.

Today, I am grateful for the flip-side.

The Spot Where the Light Comes In

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 38: Today, I am grateful for the spot where the light comes in.

I like to think of it as my spot. Daisy Mae believes it is hers. We share. It is that chair by the bay window where the light comes in during the morning hours. We delight in it. We savor it. Occasionally, we share it. 

I was reminded today of the simple pleasure of gentle sunlight through a window. 

“Let your face shine on your servant; save me in your unfailing love.” – Psalms 31:16

Short post today. There is a fire in the fireplace calling my name. My best guy and Daisy are waiting. 

Today, I am grateful for the spot where the light comes in.

Good Pursuits

 

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 37: Today, I am grateful for good pursuits.

I needed a field of tulips today. I hope you enjoy them, too. The days are getting longer and whatever the groundhog says, spring will arrive right on time. 

February is a short month, but there is always plenty going on. How will we fill our schedules and spend our time today?

This passage reminds me that it is important to choose good pursuits. Our input has an input on the outcome. Do we expect God to rescue us when we knowingly make unwise choices or pursue things that are offensive to His holiness?  He is faithful. He is just. He has a big picture that he invites us to join the family. 

"Whoever pursues righteousness and unfailing love will find life, righteousness, and honor." -Proverbs 21:21

There are many times there is no backspace or undo buttons. Choices have consequences. Who do we choose today? What is our heart's desire? What will we chase? Who will we chase? 

Today, I am grateful for good pursuits.

Gameball Run

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 36: Today, I am grateful for Gameball Run (Thursday). 

Today is the actual Gameball Run. It is so exciting to see the schools, students, families, teachers, and local businesses come together to support the Children's Hospital of IL. The Committee does an amazing job and the community comes together for a special event. 

The track isn't in any shape for running, so it is moved into the Potter Dome. Local Food Trucks will be on site with for treats. It is a true community event. 

There is nothing like a community united for a great cause. 

Today, I am grateful for Gameball Run. 

Winter Birds Singing

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 35: Today, I am grateful for the winter bird's singing. 

Yesterday the morning was bright and as I walked from the parking lot into the office, the birds were singing for joy. 

Winter birds intrigue me. Somehow, they survive the winter's deepest cold temperatures and winds. I am still thinking about it this morning. Their chorus was loud. (Sorry, Jeanne, I hope they didn't wake you too early.) It was like a hallelujah. 

Amy Grant has an old song that is called "Better than a Hallelujah" that I really like. Perhaps, our sincere gut response to whatever is going on in our lives is better than a hallelujah. Be it tears, fear, exhaustion, wonder... or the birds singing loud and strong.

Some days are hard. Some days the sun is shining and the air feels warm. 

As I went to find the verse I had in mind, it was a day when my verse of the day was perfect. It always feels Heaven sent when that happens. 

"He sang this song to the Lord on the day the Lord rescued him from all his enemies and from Saul. He sang: I love you, Lord; you are my strength. The Lord is my rock, my fortress, and my savior; my God is my rock, in whom I find protection. He is my shield, the power that saves me, and my place of safety." -Psalm 18:2

Keep on singing. It might not change the circumstance, but it changes us. Listen for the birds and smile. 

Today, I am grateful for the winter bird's singing. 

My Randy

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 34: Today, I am grateful for my Randy.

Some people's birth changes everything. It really is kind of amazing. If he tells the story, just surviving childhood with a pack of older siblings was his first big adventure in life. Now, his brothers and sisters might tell it differently. I love when they come together to share stories and memories. I wish he could see them more often. 

I love that he loves my family, too. I think that makes a difference. I always smile when he is teasing one of my aunts or cousins. When I see him engaged in conversation with my brother, Jennifer, Ciara, Cody, Kenzie, or Steven it melts my heart. Love is a choice far more than a feeling. 

I think being a Dad is the role that surprised him the most. He loves being a father... and father-in-love. I am pretty sure it is his favorite. 

He is gentle with my heart. He takes care of widows and orphans. He is compassionate toward fur-babies and wild creatures.  He is humble and kind. He makes me laugh... daily. 

"Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance." -1 Corinthians 13:4-7

Happy Birthday, Randy. I hope your day is special in every way. 

Today, I am grateful for my Randy.

Home's Winter Comforts

 

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 33: Today, I am grateful for home's winter comforts. 

I love being home. I always have. I do not get bored. It takes me about two weeks before I am stir crazy. The only thing better than being home is being home with family and friends. Winter provides more opportunities than the warmer months to gather for the moments memories are made of. 

"Winter is the time for comfort, for good food, and warmth from the touch of a friendly hand. And, for a talk beside the fire. It is the time for home." -Edith Sitwell

We have had a fire this weekend, comfort food, and a baked breakfast pastry. These are winter things. Some we will not do in the spring. 

“Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.” – Colossians 3:15

There is a peace in winter (after the holidays) that other seasons do not have. The earth rests, and we need rest, too. Home is my favorite place to rest. 

Today, I am grateful for home's winter comforts.

God Sees Us Differently

 

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 32: Today, I am grateful God sees us differently.     

We had a wonderful message from Judges 6 today. Gideon's story has a special place in my heart. It has always been one of my favorites. When I am uncertain of what to do, I find that "putting out a fleece" is a great way to ask for guidance.   

A big part of Gideon's calling relied on him being able to see past the man in the mirror and into the heart of a God who does not call us without providing a way. His strength... not ours... is the game changer.   

"The Lord turned to him and said, “Go in the strength you have and save Israel out of Midian’s hand. Am I not sending you?”" -Judges 6:14

We can go in the strength we have when God is sending us. 

When we are overwhelmed by the assignment ahead, he goes before us, beside us, and carries us. He sees a "mighty warrior" where we see someone not strong enough, gifted enough, or experienced enough for the task. 

Whatever the week brings, we do not go alone into the unknown. We are treasured children of the most High King. 

Today, I am grateful God sees us differently. 

Refocus

 

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 31: Today, I am grateful we can refocus. 

"Gratitude lifts our eyes off the things we lack so we can see the blessings we possess."-Max Lucado

Refocusing our eyes takes a little effort. We must be intentional when we shift a mindset. Many find it easier to look down than up, but if you are looking down, you miss some of the good stuff. 

What do we lack? There is a vast difference between want and need, yet the lines blur  when we live with abundance. 

I know that many are suffering as this winter storm has brutalized areas that do not usually receive harsh winter weather. Many are without electricity and their homes are not built for hard winters, neither are their wardrobes. 

There are, also, reports of ordinary people doing what they can to help those around them. They are kind, good, and compassionate people who step-up to feed, clothe, shelter, and care for those in need. Helping others is a way to refocus. 

"They share freely and give generously to those in need. Their good deeds will be remembered forever. They will have influence and honor." -Psalm 112:9

To share freely and give generously is good instruction. 

Today, I am grateful we can refocus. 

Favorite Cups

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 30: Today, I am grateful for my favorite cups. 

The cup you drink from matters. We all have favorite cups. Some are special because they are gifts from people we love. They are a part of a relationship and/or a memory. 

When Mama died, one of my cousins presented a tea basket of comfort and joy. Mama and her Dad (Uncle Lee) loved drinking tea together and talking about the Bible. Every time I use that large, big handled teacup. I think of here, the sentiment, and them sipping tea in Heaven in the presence of their Lord. Yes, one teacup has that kind of power. (Love you, Angie.)

I love any cup that allows me to grip with three or four fingers. For me, it adds to the pleasure. Weird? Maybe, but try it. Genetic gifted me with Grandma Mable's large hands. A dainty handle has never been my comfort. A large handle means I can easily wrap my hands around the warm cup in the morning. 

I've recently discovered Polish Pottery and there are some soup cups with the coolest large loop handles. They look more like a ladle than a bowl. It is art and practical... if a little on the pricey side. 

My tall, pink Longaberger mug is a favorite. It keeps me praying for those waking the path with breast cancer. My Sister-in-Love, Jennifer, hooked me on that mug and forgave me when I accidently broke one of hers. Thank goodness E-bay has everything to replace hers... and one for me, too.  

My little brother, Matt, picked up a large hot pink water water cup in St. Thomas that makes me smile every time I see it. The man has been surrounded by women for most of his life. It holds equal parts of fun memories and water. No one steals his cup. 

The Love of My Life took a liking to a special elephant cup that was gifted to me by my scrapbooking friend, Kathy. We met through an online group, but the friendship is real. When she learned Randy would steal my cup, she sent him a lion mug that is identical, except the image. My elephant says "One step at a time" and his lion says "It's hard being king." We had the best time when she came for a real life visit. We think of her almost daily. 

The cup you drink from matters. 

This post made me think of the time Jesus prayed in the Garden of Gethsemane before he was taken to be crucified. 

“Father, if you are willing, please take this cup of suffering away from me. Yet I want your will to be done, not mine.” -Luke 22:42

Not every cup is a favorite. Some have a purpose. Some contain what is necessary and not what is desired. 

Today, I am grateful for my favorite cups. 

The Three G's

 

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 29: Today, I am grateful for the three G's.

"Begin each day with God, grace, and gratitude." -image from Comfort & Joy 

I love alliteration! This caught my eye. God, grace, and gratitude are a perfect way to start any day. There are so many ways to do that very thing, and it does not need to take much time. It is soul fuel... not just soul food. 

How we start the day matters. It sets a tone for the day. For me, it is my favorite time of day, but I know others were designed to start a little slower. 

Mama Ina Mae was a big believer and an example of starting the day off on the right foot. I do not recall her ever being grumpy in the morning. She had a daily job to do... a family to feed, a husband in a hurry, and children to get out the door for school. 

I think of her example of an ample supply of God, grace, and gratitude. This summation of life's meaning and purpose come from Paul:

"But my life is worth nothing to me unless I use it for finishing the work assigned me by the Lord Jesus—the work of telling others the Good News about the wonderful grace of God." -Acts 20:24

His prayer life was constant. Paul had met Jesus, tasted grace, and it changed him. He found ways to be grateful in all things. As a child, reading Acts used to scare me and make me sad. I missed the many good things packed in the pages. Bad things happened to people who were sharing love and hope, but they could not really lose. They knew the truth of the Good News. They were truly free. 

God, grace, and gratitude are a great way to get out the gate. 

Today, I am grateful for the three G's.

The Morning Mission

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 28: Today, I am grateful for the morning's mission. 

"Morning is God's way of whispering one more time: Make a difference. Touch a Heart. Encourage a Mind. Inspire a Soul. Enjoy the Day." -TobyMac, SPEAKLIFE

This hit at just the right place for me on this wintery morning. Even in the winter's pause, we each have a mission for this day. 

"Let me hear of your unfailing love each morning, for I am trusting you. Show me where to walk, for I give myself to you." Psalm 143:8

Show me the way for this day. It is a perfect prayer for the morning and a great way to start the day. 

Dress for the day and get on the way. Look for the little joys in the ordinary and mundane and pass them on.  

Today, I am grateful for the morning's mission. 

Heated Steering Wheels & Bun Warmers

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 27: Today, I am grateful for heated steering wheels and heated seats. 

These are truly luxury items in our vehicles. When Randy and I were married, not all cars in Michigan were sold without air-conditioning. Imagine that? Today, we do not see air-conditioning as a luxury feature, but as a necessity. 

My car only has "bun-warmers" but Randy's truck has both. Both are comfort changers on the coldest days. The heated seats get used any time of year there is an evening chill. 

Honestly, in these temperatures, a working heater and a car that starts is a blessing. I remember the years of kid cars and cold weather concerns about our teens' cars starting and their safety in the bitter parts of January and February. 

"Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus." -1 Thessalonians 5:18

This scripture is often quoted with the "all things" as the hard things. It is perfect for when we are offering gratitude for the luxuries in our life, too. Most of us have plenty to eat with some to share. We have cars that can get us to school, work, church, and many other activities with our families. 

If we have heated seats and/or steering wheels, savor them this morning. 

Today, I am grateful for heated steering wheels and heated seats. 

No Mosquitoes in Winter

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 26: Today, I am grateful for no mosquitoes in winter. 

When the cold goes on for days, we can look for the good. There are no mosquitoes in the winter.

I did a little reading. Some insect populations are impacted by extended deep cold. It can cause a decline in reproduction in the spring. Others survive by nature's design. 

We can celebrate the winter days without mosquitoes. 

"For everything there is a season, a time for every activity under heaven." -Ecclesiastes 3:1

As we long for warmer days, we can celebrate that these winter days are mosquito-free. 

Today, I am grateful for no mosquitoes in winter. 

The Cleansing Breath

 

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 25: Today, I am grateful for the cleansing breath. 

"Keep what is worth keeping, and with a breath of kindness, blow the rest away." -Dinah M. Craik

When I think about a "cleansing breath," I think about it as a way to fight anxiety. A cleansing breath is deep and refreshing. It is a great idea before beginning a presentation or taking the stage for performance. 

"And with a breath of kindness" is placed in the middle of a quote that could stand alone without it. But, it is "the breath of kindness" that changes everything. The intentional "kindness" adds choice in the midst of the things we cannot control. 

Life happens. Good things. Hard things. When we cannot choose the situation, we can still choose our attitudes. It is equally important to keep what is worth keeping. 

"For the life of every living thing is in his hand, and the breath of every human being." -Job 12:10

In our trials, we grow stronger. Great loss teaches us much. We do not want to lose the lessons learned. But, for the things that are not worth keeping... let them go with kindness. 

Today, I am grateful for the cleansing breath.

Better Questions

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 24: Today, I am grateful for better questions. 

"The best way to get a better answer is to start asking a better question." -Tony Robbins

Wouldn't it be easier if every question had a simple "yes" or "no?" Or if "True" and "False" could tell the whole story? There are some absolute truths. There are some absolutely false answers, wrong answers, and lies. 

There are bad questions, too. These kinds of questions show up on pop quizzes, health questionnaires, and in courtrooms during witness examinations. They can be trick questions. At times they are leading questions, and there is no door to open for important details to tell the rest of the story. 

My friend, Don, has had me thinking about "better questions." He has started a trend by asking a question of the day. I have always been a fan of open-ended questions. Raising boys, the answer to "How was your day at school?" was almost always going to be "Fine." if you were not creative with your questions. Don has asked some great ones, and we look forward to it daily. He has used it as a powerful culture and climate impacting tool. 

The right questions can open doors, provide insight, and help us communicate more effectively. Don has been intentional in asking questions in ways that can be answered in fun ways or thoughtful ways. Hearing the answers around me has been a true delight. 

People are talking about Don's questions in the kitchen, in the halls, and at the door. He wrote about his experiences and insights on his Substack, and he perfectly captured the power of better questions. He has caused me to be more intentional to not comment on the weather, unless it is positive. 

My sweet friend Cleve, did not enjoy "The Wagon Wheel" ice breaker game. We did it with every new class of students at Peoria Alternative High School. It was a new open-ended question... with a new person... every move of the wheel. Cleve was one of the best humans I have ever walked with daily, and it made me sad he did not enjoy it. The other team members knew he disliked it too, but sweet Cleve saw the value and did it for the kids... and for me if you hear the other team members tell the story. The students found things in common at their first meeting, and learned some unique things too. 

Open-ended questions are the ones you cannot answer with a yes, no, true, or false. 

There are many important and powerful questions in the Bible, but there is one that changes everything. It has implications for our souls that echo into eternity. 

"Then he asked them, “But who do you say I am?”" -Matthew 16:15

Better questions take practice and effort, but the rewards are bountiful. 

Today, I am grateful for better questions. 

Decision Makers

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 22: Today, I am grateful for the decision makers.

It is easy to criticize those who make the hard decisions. It would be better to pray for their wisdom. Wisdom is a gift from God. 

With the winter storm impacting so many people and places this weekend, it is hard to be the one making the decisions. The truth is that someone is always going to be unhappy. It is good to pray for our decision makers. 

Schools, travel, memorial services, weddings, and athletic events are impacted when weather concerns take over. 

I am grateful for those who make the call. I am grateful for those who show grace when they are disappointed by a cancelled plan. I am grateful for our first responders who get no break in the storm and go out in dangerous conditions. I am grateful for a cozy warm home with the Love-of-my-Life. 

"If you need wisdom, ask our generous God, and he will give it to you. He will not rebuke you for asking." -James 1:5

Whatever your week and weekend bring, stay safe. 

"Sometimes,  you just have to bow your head, say a prayer, and weather the storm." 

Today, I am grateful for the decision makers.

An Open Door

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 22: Today, I am grateful for an open door. 

The Congregational Church in Clifton, IL, is where my grandparents raised my Dad and Uncle Mel. It was the only church I remember being associated with the Lindgren family. It is the church where they came to know Jesus as Lord and Savior in adulthood. I was very young, but I remember the change.

This stained glass was a focal point of the sanctuary decor. We sat on that side of the church. Grandpa taught us to twirl our thumbs and offered us hard candy when we were wiggly. 

My Dad loved this window. It spoke to his soul when he realized that the door had no knob. Someone had to open it from the inside. For him, a light went on in his head and he finally understood the window he had stared at from a childhood. 

Jesus knocks on the door of our hearts. We can recognize him when we see him. He can call us by name. He knows who we are, but we have to open the door to invite him into our hearts. 

If we let him in, he sees our mess. He sees what is broken or simply worn out by the wear and tear of daily life. Perhaps, he will want us to change something. We fail to see that He only improves what he touches. His companionship makes every day better. Loneliness becomes quiet communion with the one who died so that we might live life with a wild abandon. 

Paul once said from a jail cell letter ... and I paraphrase... "If they kill me this time, I will have Heaven with my Lord. If they don't kill me this time, I will have more days to share the good news of the Gospel." 

Saul was a religious nut... and then he encountered Jesus and was changed. Saul became Paul. Ananias had to seek out Saul... who was responsible for the death of so many of his brothers and sisters in Christ... to lay hands on him so that he might see again as the Lord had instructed. In a vision, he was told where Saul/Paul would be. He knocked on the door and it was opened. He did as the Lord had instructed, and one of the greatest missionaries of all time was healed. (Acts 9)

As I look at this image I am reminded that we have to open the door and let him in... from the inside. (Thanks Dad for repeating that illustration so many times.)

“Keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks, receives. Everyone who seeks, finds. And to everyone who knocks, the door will be opened." -Matthew 7:7-8

He never refuses the invitation to come in. Don't worry about the mess and the brokenness. He has seen worse. He will only make your days better. As a child once told me, "Jesus doesn't ask you to clean your room. He wants you to clean your heart." Open the door. He is only here to help. 

Today, I am grateful for an open door. 

Remote Start

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 21: Today, I am grateful for remote start. 

This week, all of the creature comforts that help us bear the winter's deepest chill. A remote start is one of them. 

My current vehicle is my first car with that feature (yes, we drive cars a long time) and it is a game changer. It helps the car get warmed up and the windows ready to clear before the drive home. Honestly, it takes longer to warm the car than it does to make my commute home, but I am grateful to have a warm vehicle and clear windows for the drive.  

A side-benefit is that I am much less crabby about the cold. I can focus on some of the beauty in winter's landscape. January is the remote start season. 

We cannot control the weather, but we can control our attitudes about the weather and toward each other. 

"When we arrived, the brothers and sisters in Jerusalem welcomed us warmly." -Acts 21:17

I hope the remote start (or attached garage) starts your day in a way that warms those you meet and greet. 

Today, I am grateful for remote start. 

The Heater's Hum

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 20: Today, I am grateful for the heater's hum.    

In the past 24 hours, I have been hearing the hum of the heater as it kicks on. What a blessing it is to have heat at the touch of a dial or button. A working heater gives us comfort, and it is lifesaving in these near zero temperatures. 

It is a good day to say a prayer for the protection and discernment of the HVAC technicians and electricians who go out on calls to problem solve in these bitter conditions. 

It is a great day to bless those who shelter the homeless in our communities. They rely on our gifts to keep the doors open. 

Waking up to heat is not just a blessing, it truly is the greatest of luxuries. The hum of the heater was like a lullaby last night and a reason to sing this morning. 

"And give thanks for everything to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ." -Ephesians 5:20

Today, I am grateful for the heater's hum.   

The Spoken Hope

 

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 19: Today, I am grateful for the spoken hope.  

"But as for me, I watch in hope for the Lord, I wait for God my Savior; my God will hear me." -Micah 7:7 (NIV)

Can you hear the confidence and expectation? Not knowing the time, but confident of the outcome. Help is on the way. 

There is something powerful in speaking our faith out load. Not just thoughts, but speaking what we believe. He delights in the confidence and praise of those who call him Savior, Lord, and King. 

"Faith shows the reality of what we hope for; it is the evidence of things we cannot see." -Hebrews 11:1 (NLT)

The Book of Hebrews defines its intended audience in the name, but those who are grafted in by the blood of Jesus can learn from it, too. He does not abandon His children. The timing may be unexpected. The answer can be "no" or "not yet." 

One thing is sure, He hears our prayers and delights in our seeking His face with humble hearts. His hand is mighty to protect, save, restore, and comfort. How can we be silent? 

Today, I am grateful for the spoken hope.

His Mercy

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 18: Today, I am grateful for His mercy.

Mercy is a beautiful thing. 

"But—When God our Savior revealed his kindness and love, he saved us, not because of the righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He washed away our sins, giving us a new birth and new life through the Holy Spirit." Titus 3:4-5

It is that fountain that flows deep and wide. We didn't earn it, yet He pours it out generously. It is His kindness and love that covers us, not anything we can do or accomplish. 

Do we live differently in light of His mercy? Do we choose kindness and love more easily in light of his grace? Every day offers new opportunities. 

Today, I am grateful for His mercy.

The Arts

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 17: Today, I am grateful for the arts.

"Painting is silent poetry, and poetry is painting that speaks." -Plutarch

I love the arts! I have observed over the centuries that humans recognize that art is special. Not everyone has the same gifts and abilities. There is an intrinsic value to art that is hard to define. 

The skill of the artist is only part of the story. When nations fall, the art, the gold, and the jewels are often gathered as the spoils of war. It is not unusual for some of the valuables to go missing in chaos of the transfer of the valuables. Decades later, there are times an item resurfaces. (Yes, I love the show "Antiques Roadshow.") Art is important to a nation's story and the story of a people or a culture. 

To think we can still see the things Michelangelo painted and sculpted after centuries fills me with a sense of respect and awe. My sister, April, was an artist. She often lost track of time when she started a piece. The artist pours themselves into a painting, a drawing, a sculpture, a piece of pottery, a clothing design, a vocal performance, a piece of writing, a musical composition, a piece of blown glass, a tapestry, a poem, or a jewelry design, not knowing how it will be received. Most artists carry a sense of vulnerability about the art they create, but passion keeps them creating. 

Some art requires steps. Others must be finished quickly. Some art springs from joy. Some flows from a wounded soul or a broken heart. What would the world be without art? 

God called upon the best craftsmen to create for His house and to His glory: 

"The Lord has given them special skills as engravers, designers, embroiderers in blue, purple, and scarlet thread on fine linen cloth, and weavers. They excel as craftsmen and as designers." -Exodus 35:35

Do not take for granted the creative side of your design. You were created in His image. Find your art and let it pour from your heart. Some create spreadsheets, organize closets, build homes, gardens, and even clean houses in a way that is more of an art than a task. 

Find your art and embrace it. Let it flow from your heart. 

Today, I am grateful for the arts. 

Live Well

 Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 16: Today, I am grateful for reminders to live well.

"How ironic that our highest calling is humility. 
To give quietly. 
To pray behind closed doors. 
To live small.
To be like the lilies of the field and the birds of the air. To carry our crosses daily. To choose the road less traveled. To cherish the ordinary day. The only thing we need to do with wild extravagance is love."  -ullie-kaye

I loved this quote. It is a simple reminder of how to live our best lives. 

Not one item on the list requires power, influence, or wealth. Each one is a reflection of our relationship with a God who promised he would never leave us or forsake us. 

"So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won’t be doing what your sinful nature craves." -Galatians 5:16

What do we crave? How do we live? Do we cherish the ordinary in each day?

Today, I am grateful for reminders to live well.

"The Next Thing"

 

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 15: Today, I am grateful for "the next thing." 

"Sometimes life is so hard you can only do the next thing. Whatever that it, just do the next thing. God will meet you there." -Elisabeth Elliot

I love Elisabeth Elliot's gentle wisdom. She knew sweet love. great loss, big adventures, and God's faithfulness. 

Some seasons in life are celebrations and others are filled with trial after trial. Typically, life is a mixed bag. On the hardest days, her advice is just do the next thing. 

When her husband died on the mission field, their daughter, Valerie, was 10 months old. Babies need to be fed and diapered. I imagine there were days and weeks when she only had energy for "the next thing." 

She made the decision to stay in Ecuador on the mission field with Valerie after Jim's death. She worked with the Quichua tribe and later lived with the Auca (Waodani) people, who had killed her husband, and fellow missionaries Nate, Ed, Pete, and Roger. In time, she would live with the very same people who speared her husband to death and her children would call one of them "Grandfather."  

She did "the next thing" that eventually led to hope and healing. God met her there. In her tears, exhaustion, and questions... God met her there. When she regrouped and made bold decisions to continue the work... God met her there. But first, in the moments of deepest sorrow and unknowns, she did not have to look for God. She did the next thing, and God met her there. 

Today, I am grateful for "the next thing." 

Proverbs 22:4

 

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 14: Today, I am grateful for Proverbs 22:4. 

"True humility and fear of the LORD lead to riches, honor, and long life." -Proverbs 22:4 NLT

This is one of those passages that it is fun to read in many translations. Biblegateway.com makes it easy. I like to squeeze every bit of sweetness and wisdom from the passage. I used blueletterbible.org if I want to explore the original Hebrew and Greek. 

Humility is not promoted much in this world, but when humble servants and leaders show up, the world does notice. 

This is a great quote from one of the deepest thinkers to ever pick up a pen.

"Humility is not thinking less of yourself; it is thinking of yourself less. Humility is thinking more of others." -C.S. Lewis

Solomon asked God for wisdom, and that wisdom was passed on in Proverbs so that we might learn, too. Humility is a response to genuine respect and love for God. 

Fear of the Lord is not terror, although He is fierce. Perhaps it is more like the "fear" of gravity. We do not jump from high places without a parachute. Gravity is a law we cannot ignore. Gravity has helped inventors solve real world problems. 

God's laws when broken have consequences, too. In contrast, seeking His face and searching for truth has endless benefits. 

Today, I am grateful for Proverbs 22:4. 

All of the Pieces

 

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 13: Today, I am grateful for all of the pieces. 

I found this great quote:

"I am pieces of all the places I have been, and the people I have loved. I've been stitched together by song lyrics, book quotes, adventure, late night conversations, moonlight, and the smell of coffee. - Brooke Hampton 

Every word rings true. All of the pieces come together uniquely in each one of us. It really is quite grand, isn't it? Life is a tapestry of places, people, music, lyrics, connections, nature, and the flavors woven into experiences and memories that make our souls sing. 

My head is dancing with old songs and sweet memories. Earworm cannot decide on just one. Favorite trips, special moments, and special songs all blend together. 

“But watch out! Be careful never to forget what you yourself have seen. Do not let these memories escape from your mind as long as you live! And be sure to pass them on to your children and grandchildren." -Deuteronomy 4:9

Save all of the pieces to revisit on a rainy day. Snuggle up with them on a cold winter's night. Write them down for your children and your grandchildren. 

Today, I am grateful for all of the pieces. 

Reminder to Get Started

 

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 12: Today, I am grateful for a reminder to get started.    

"The secret to getting ahead is getting started."

It is a great quote for a Monday. I love Mark Twain's wit and wisdom. He was a bold observer of the world around him.

Twain said what other people were thinking. He connected the dots when common sense was missing. His quotes often remind me that there are deep truths from generation to generation.

Getting started is the first hurdle in any day, week, or project; perseverance gets the job done.  

"Finishing is better than starting. Patience is better than pride." -Ecclesiastes 7:8 

Today, I am grateful for a reminder to get started.  

Like Home

 

Daily Gratitude- Year 14 - Day 11: Today, I am grateful for places that feel like home.  

"People aren't longing to be impressed, they are longing to feel like they're at home." -Shauna Niequist 

I think this statement holds some deep truths. There are times we arrive in new places, and feel out of place. There are other times, it quickly feels like home. To feel truly welcome makes us feel at home. 

Lazarus, Martha, and Mary were dear friends of Jesus. We are not told the back story, but there is something unique in his relationship with them. They recognized him as their Lord and Savior, but they opened their home with him as well. He shared time and meals with them. 

The relationship had an intimacy that meant when they called for Jesus to come and help their sick brother, they were devastated when he did not come instantly. Lazarus died and was buried before Jesus arrived in Bethany. Mary and Martha were devastated. 

In their joys and in their grief, Jesus was at home in their house.  He had sat with them for evening meals as dear friends. He came to share their grief and restore their joy. He wept with them, feeling their pain. Did he weep for their disappointment, too? 

"Then Jesus wept." -John 11:35

We do not know all of the details of the story. We know that Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead in a show of power, healing,  and restoration. No one who had been a part of the mourning for Lazarus could deny his resurrection.  

There is a special joy that comes from feeling truly welcome at a table, in a home, and with a family. 

Today, I am grateful for places that feel like home.